If someone walked up to you right now and asked the question, “Are you living a life that truly makes your happy“, what would your immediate answer be?
Many times, when you take a deeper look at some of the factors that cause people to feel depressed and unhappy is the simple fact that they feel their lives lack meaning and direction.
The great news is that it is a very simple process to give your life meaning and direction. All you need to do is find a purpose for your life. Now I know that that sounds difficult, but trust me, when you understand what to do and how to do it, it really easy; and I want to show you how.
Even if you aren’t depressed and unhappy, defining your purpose can help you; and understanding who you are and what you want out of life can help you achieve more, and be more. One of the best benefits is that it can also help you make better decisions each day…and better decisions lead to a great life.
Okay, let’s begin! Please know that finding your purpose may take some time and thought because what you are doing is very important and very meaningful. But the thing is, is there anything in life that is more important than you and your wellbeing? Is it worth the time to invest in yourself to reach what you believe is a successful life? Once you have made the decison that you are important, we can move on together with this exercise.
Are you ready? Great, let’s move!.
Here are five steps to help you get this done…
Step One: Look Back
Think about your past especially the high points and successes. Make a list of all your successes and all the points of pride and accomplishment. Spend time simply thinking about your childhood, school years, and other phases of your life so you can make a list that is as complete as possible. Do you spot any trends among these accomplishments and successes?
Step Two: Look Inside
Make a list of positive words or attributes that people use to describe you such as hard working, creative, passionate, or determined. Then make a list of words or attributes you use to describe yourself. What are your gifts and talents? Make sure to list the ones that you don’t currently use as well as those you currently develop and utilize. After reviewing and comparing these lists make a list of five or six core values that are your top priorities.
Step Three: Look At Your Dreams
Now take the time to dream a little. If time and money were no object how could you contribute to the world, your family, your career field, your friends, and your community? What are your passions? What moves you, excites you, or angers you?
Step Four: Look Ahead
Review your notes from Steps One, Two and Three and identify your top goals and priorities. Make a list of these and then number them in order of importance.